Frustrations with my Son

My Son is 8 years old. His name is Zekie. Many times I feel frustrated with my boy. Especially when it comes to routine work of sleeping, feeding, bathing, school homeworking. In as much as I know that my son's moods swings does tell me that his creative minds wander into many ideas, it really is difficult for me as a RIE parent to accept point blank the way he is especially when you are running a household and trying to be consistent in your rules in the home. Zekie has 2 sisters 6 and turning 4.